[charley]

I need help!!!!!!!

I know I know in many many ways , but on this particular occasion I am looking for advice and inspiration. My husband and I have been married for nearly fifteen years!!!! We did however have quite a serious blip, which involved me leaving and moving back to East Anglia for over a year until we realised life wasn't quite the same without each other and the and decided to work our little butts (not so little in my case)to put it back together.

We are now genuinely happier than ever , but like many others we are somewhat skint. we have arranged to go down to Suffolk so our daughter can catch up with her friends in half term which is the week that valentines day falls in.....So the cause of my quest is to ask for inspired ideas of romantic things to do or give which take some effort and not too much monies???????

Ideas please?????

Charley x

[Lethal Biddle]

I actually had drinks with an internet statistician last night & our conversation covered this exact kind of problem. He basically colates all the internet search requests by group for particular periods to see what people are interested in. And we discussed Valentine's Day. He said that, in all cases where gender could be determined & besides "what shall I get...", card & flower searches etc. There was a clear split between the sexes & a peak in searches in the week or so running up to Valentine's for "how can I keep/make my boyfried (happy)" amongst women & "how do you get a girl to give you a blowjob" amongst men... Which is a sad statement on cultural gender insecurity in itself...
But it does kind of suggest that what everyone really wants on Valentine's day is oral sex. One way or another.
So, frankly, I'd recommend giving your hubby the world's best hummer.